Fine, Dammit: Confessions of a Sought-After Sleepmate
"He just wants to get into bed with you." I've heard this time and time again. (Said to women, of course, not to me.) Men everywhere have been culturally expected to get into bed with attractive women for centuries. But, here's the thing: It's the 21st century, baby. Toxic masculinity is coming to an end. The tables are turning. And, unfortunately someone told my girlfriend. Future author C.J. Wood cannot get out of my bed. C.J. would rather sit at a 90-degree angle in my bed than anywhere else in my apartment. And if you could see my couch, you'd know she had great options. When she goes fully horizontal, she hasn't been shy about wanting me with her. Now I'll answer the question you've wondered since you found this blog: why kind of guy doesn't want to sleep with his girlfriend? What would stop him? One word: standards. It's not that I don't want any girls in my bed. It's that I don't want just any...